10 books about love and relationships

It is said that men and women are from different planets, and perhaps because of this difference it is not uncommon for misunderstandings to arise between them. But at such times it is important to remember that any problem can be resolved through a constructive conversation. In our selection, we have collected the most popular literature that will help you achieve a harmonious relationship and understand your other half.

Harry Lambert « No longer available. How to get a ring and not screw it up»

Harry Lambert is a relationship expert who has helped thousands of girls overcome loneliness and land that coveted diamond ring. If you’re still waiting, this book will help you take the initiative and not screw it up. Harry Lambert tells you how to stop falling for the wrong man. How to know men correctly? How do you become the woman you want to marry? With this book you will understand the mistakes you made in the past and how to correct them, you will learn to understand men and avoid their manipulations, you will become a woman who gets everything she wants.

It’s time to take control of your life and find the love you deserve.

Esther Perel, “The Right to the ‘Left.’ Why People Cheat and Can Cheating Be Avoided»

Have you ever wondered why people cheat? Why is he able to break the vows he made and destroy the trust in a relationship? This book is not about how to catch your husband cheating or how to track a call, who your husband is talking to or who your wife is messaging on Whatsapp. Esther Perel, renowned couples therapist, gives us an intimate look at the reasons why some people are unfaithful. You will discover how cheating can be an act of rebellion against commitment and monotony or an attempt to find a more intimate and emotional connection.

But is it possible to avoid cheating? Perel thinks so, and in this book he offers practical advice to help couples improve their relationship and avoid cheating.

John Gottman, The Seven Principles of a Happy Marriage or Emotional Intelligence in Love

This book is dedicated to all who want to learn to love and be loved. Marriage is a very complex relationship, and for it to work, both parties must be willing to work at it. In this book, Dr. John Gottman offers seven basic principles for maintaining a happy and healthy marriage. You will learn to communicate better with your partner, handle conflicts constructively, express your needs and feelings clearly, and make marriage a priority.

With this book you will learn how to truly love and build a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

Steve Harvey, “Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man”

In this book, popular comedian and TV host Steve Harvey reveals the secrets of male behavior. You will learn to understand how men think and what really matters to them. You will also learn how to manipulate them into doing what you want and how to be a strong and confident woman. The author helps readers understand the way of thinking of the stronger sex and answers many painful questions. For example: «What should and what should not be required from your man?», «How to recognize a boy from a mother and what to do in this case?», «When to meet the gentleman with his children?», « What five questions, what to ask a man to determine the seriousness of his intentions? Funny and sometimes crude, but always true, this book is about what men really think about relationships with women.

Alan Pease, Barbara Pease “The Language of Relationships”

Have you ever felt misunderstood or confused by the way your partner communicates with you? If so, then this book is for you. International bestselling authors Alan and Barbara Pease explore the differences in language and communication between men and women. You will learn to decipher body ‘language’, interpret gestures and non-verbal cues and use this knowledge to improve your relationship.

With this book you will learn to communicate effectively and avoid unnecessary conflicts.

Daniel Shapiro “On Emotions. How to deal with the most painful conflicts in the family and at work»

Emotional conflict is the most dangerous type of dispute. It comes on suddenly and is difficult to deal with. It most often arises from family misunderstandings, various work conflicts or even in personal relationships. People are not always willing to admit their true feelings, and therefore the conflict becomes more intense.

Daniel Shapiro, author of this book, is a psychologist and family therapist. In this book, he offers practical strategies to help people manage emotional conflicts. You will learn to recognize the symptoms of conflict, avoid unnecessary confrontations and resolve conflicts effectively.

Liz Bourbeau “Love, love, love. About the different ways to improve relationships, about accepting others and yourself»

As we know, acceptance is the key to all doors, especially the doors of our hearts. Accepting yourself is the first step to loving and being loved. However, many times we find ourselves in situations where we cannot accept ourselves as we are. We are forced to change, to do something we don’t want to do. In this book, author Liz Bourbeau helps us understand what love is and how we can improve our relationships. You will learn to accept yourself and others and love in a fuller and more fulfilling way.

John Gray “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”

If you are interested in the psychology of relationships between men and women, books on the subject are a good place to start. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, is a psychologist and psychotherapist who has devoted his life to studying the differences between male and female behavior. The author makes clear how different we are, the “Yin and Yang” who feel, think and behave in every situation. The author claims that men and women are so different that one feels they are from different planets. And to find the other half in a relationship, you need to learn a special language of love. How to do it? This book will help you. In his book, Gray offers a unique and valuable perspective on how to understand and improve a relationship. You will learn to know your partner’s true desires, communicate effectively and avoid conflicts.

Douglas Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams, John Gottman, Julie Schwartz-Gottman “Woman. Men’s Guide»

If you are a man looking to understand women, this book will help you. The author offers a unique insight into the psychology of women. How to understand a woman, what is her nature, what she wants and what kind of men she likes? These and many other questions will be answered in this post. A kind of revelation about the nature of woman for man offers scientifically proven facts that will allow him to understand women, therefore learn to make them happy. The publication is not without humor and includes real-life stories, an extensive list of tips and valuable recommendations for those interested in gender relations and family psychology. After each section there is a short summary with conclusions, which allows a better understanding of the topics covered.

Jorge Bucai “Letters to Claudia”

This book is structured in the form of letters from a psychologist to his girlfriend. In a sense, it is a forgotten form of communication between people, but it was once the basis of the relationship between lovers in the process of separation.

Letters make it difficult to fight or pour out one’s emotions because the very process of writing takes us into a world of philosophical reflection and analysis of relationships.

How can you keep the feeling of love alive for years? After all, “to love – means to fully and unreservedly accept the other”, and not everyone, and if you cannot notice the negative qualities of the partner, do not get angry, do not teach!

The book is addressed to a wide range of readers, as the issues raised by the author are vital and understandable to everyone.

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