These transits or placements ultimately have big lessons to learn before they can be in a place to find their forever love because love is involved in the growth of each of these placements.
Whether it’s a transit in your birth chart or the placement of Venus, neither of these means you’ll be alone forever, but it does mean it will take you longer to get to a space where you can actually attract this , which you want. is what you need
Your birth chart shows who you are as a whole person and in many ways how you innately love, but as you learn and grow this can change even if the truth about yourself doesn’t.
When looking to see if you have any of the locations listed below, it’s important to understand not only the challenges they present, but also the lessons.
That’s one of the real purposes of a natal chart in astrology: to show you what you need to learn in this lifetime to truly live life and have the relationship you dream of.
The lessons may take a different amount of time for everyone, but the sooner you can figure out what’s in your chart, the more awareness you can bring to your love life or relationship.
There is nothing you dream of that is not for you.
It’s just that often, to fully create it, you have to grow through certain challenges.
And when you find your eternal love, or she finds you, you’ll know why it was always worth the wait.
These are the zodiac signs that have the hardest time finding their eternal love.
1. The lion rises
The Sun rules Leos, who are known to follow their hearts, so it may come as a surprise that this placement represents finding love later in life.
Leo Rising has the relationship area of his life ruled by Saturn. Saturn is the Lord of Time and Karma, which means that many karmic lessons are often learned from this planet. For a Leo Ascendant, many of these lessons center on control in a relationship, focusing on the appearance rather than the essence of a partner, and impulsiveness in decision-making.
To get through this, it’s important to make sure you let your partner fully come forward and be themselves, and to choose someone who’s good for you, not just someone who looks good on you.
When you can master these lessons, you will be able to fully experience the love you desire.
2. The Ascendant in Cancer
Like Leo Risings, your relationships are also ruled by Saturn, which means that while karmic lessons will come into play, you’ll also learn some important lessons about yourself.
You’re the keeper and nurturer of the zodiac, but that often means you can lack boundaries in relationships. It can even be seen as developing some codependency tendencies, meaning that your emotions can directly correlate with what your partner is feeling. If they’re not happy, you can’t be.
You also tend to be drawn to people who need the best fixes, those partners who have incredible potential but ultimately lack what you really need to make a relationship last.
For you, limitations are key. This means making sure you don’t give or promise too much to your partner, leaving yourself behind for the good of the relationship.
Once you can apply this and learn in the process that your needs matter too, then love suddenly becomes everything you ever thought it should be.
3. Saturn in the seventh house
Saturn is the main planet that can cause challenges in relationships because it means you will feel more limited in achieving growth in this area.
In astrology, the seventh house is the one that rules committed relationships. Having Saturn in this house means you will go through more lessons than others when it comes to love. There can be an endless stream of couples where you feel like you’re still dating the same person or that no matter what you do, nothing is making things better.
Saturn in the seventh house asks you to focus on yourself and your own healing. No lover, no matter how amazing, can help you grow or overcome the obstacles in your life.
The more you can learn from your past relationships, including those you observed in childhood, the more you can move through this challenging placement.
4. Saturn square Venus
This is one of the most challenging astrological aspects of all because it places great importance on happiness and love. Initially, they can be found in relationships rather than focusing on themselves. Because of this, you may feel lonely, isolated, and frustrated that it seems like everyone else can have what you so desperately want.
However, the lesson with this aspect is self-confidence and self-love. The more you know what you’re worth, the less you’ll let others give it to you. By doing this, your energy changes to one that is more secure, which will naturally attract the connection you’ve always hoped to find.
5. Saturn vs. Venus
This aspect is not particularly fun, as it means that you will have to spend a lot of time alone, at least in the beginning of life.
These two planets are in conflict with each other, Saturn on the one hand represents limitations and loneliness and Venus on the other rules happiness and love. Because love seems elusive in this regard, being alone can seem preferable, even leading you to believe that you don’t really want a relationship.
A big part of the lesson of this aspect is to be honest with yourself and allow vulnerability to exist in your love life. If you’re always trying to protect yourself from what you say you want, you’ll never get it. Instead, it’s about breaking down those walls and trusting someone enough to let them in.
6. Venus in Virgo
Venus is the planet of love. In Virgo, you find it difficult to find and maintain a relationship.
Virgo is an earth sign that is represented by the earth goddess and is known as a very fertile sign that represents healing. However, Venus in Virgo can take on the more challenging qualities of this sign, including perfectionism.
In relationships, this can come across as overly critical of your partner. You can also have a vision of love in your mind of what you should have or what love should be and anything that doesn’t match that ends up being wrong in some way.
There may also be a tendency to feel that nothing is ever enough. If your partner starts doing more than they should, instead of feeling grateful and satisfied, you’ll go for what you want them to do next.
To balance this, make sure you don’t project an unrealistic ideal of love onto your relationship. Be sure to use positive words of affirmation to tell them that you are happy, and most of all, remember that they are only human too and will have their own needs for love.
Work together, not against each other.
7. Venus in Gemini
This placement is misleading as it is not a challenge to find love, only to be faithful in love.
Venus is loving and wants to give herself completely to him. However, Gemini represents a sense of duality and can be fickle at times, having multiple ideas or options all the time. Venus in Gemini can find it difficult to be monogamous or faithful in relationships because you always have more than one option open.
You also tend to be very flirtatious by nature, which means it’s not difficult to attract new partners. This placement can work especially well in polyamorous situations, when you are free to follow your urges or even your heart with new partners.
Otherwise, eventually knowing why you chose and continue to choose your current partner will become the deciding factor.
Since Gemini rules mental activity, having a logical reason why you choose to be faithful can help alleviate the risk of throwing away something amazing simply because you thought something better existed.
8. Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius is just as loving as any other Venus sign, but it gets a little more complicated.
The myth about Sagittarians is that this is the sign that often has a hard time committing, which is not true. However, they need the best of both worlds: stability and freedom.
This balance of desires can be a challenge for many traditional relationships, as this sign may prefer to live in separate houses or have to go away for a few weeks each year to meet again or learn something new.
Sagittarius is the seeker of the zodiac, and at first this can apply to romantic relationships, as they always think there is something better. Sometimes yes, but it’s also that more than loneliness, this sign will tend to look for someone who satisfies only a certain need instead of all-encompassing love.
Making sure your partner really agrees with you is a big step in making your love last forever. This, along with the necessary freedom to continue growing and experiencing life, will allow you to not only find the love you’ve been looking for, but keep it.